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Wednesday, October 25, 2006

For the love of mine and all who shares the same habit as him
(Courtesy of Health Promotion Board)


"I've been smoking for so long, why bother to quit now?" Surely the damage is already done. Well, the fact is it isn't too late; quitting even after years of smoking is still worth the effort because:

Just eight hours after your last cigarette, your body will be clear of nicotine

In about a week's time, all the side effects of smoking will have gone

With time, your body will slowly repair all the damage done by the tobacco. And if you continue to stay away from cigarettes, your risk of getting smoking, related diseases like lung cancer and heart attack actually decreases, until it's almost as if you have never smoked at all!

You can stop smoking in 10 Easy Steps

1. Admit You Have a Problem
Many adult smokers don't realise they are addicted to their cigarette (just like someone hooked on heroin or cocaine). They believe they can give up smoking anytime they want to. But when they try to quit, they find it much harder than expected. Their craving for a smoke is so great they give up their attempt to quit, convinced that it can't be done.

Physical addiction
Caused by the nicotine in cigarettes acting on the brain. The body soon finds it cannot do without nicotine and seeks out more cigarettes. If it doesn't get enough, unpleasant and distressing withdrawal symptoms appear.

Psychological addiction
Occurs when cigarettes are used to fulfil some psychological need like relieving stress. The person generally can do without his cigarette. But he worries that he won't be able to cope without it. So he continues to smoke.


2. Make Up Your Mind
Many smokers need to recognise their addiction so they can prepare themselves mentally for the challenge of quitting. Giving up cigarettes isn't a quick or simple matter. You have to be ready to face setbacks. But it can be done, if you prepare yourself properly.

Having faced the fact that you're addicted, you then have to decide how serious you are about quitting. Don't say to yourself: "Let's try and see how it goes". A half-hearted attempt is doomed from the start.

If you are sure you want to quit, then make the best possible effort to succeed. Put all your heart and soul into it. If you are still undecided, maybe these facts will help you make up your mind:

i. Smoking causes lung cancer, heart attack and serious lung diseases like bronchitis and pneumonia.

ii. Smokers are more likely to suffer from ulcers and bleeding in their stomach and intestines.

iii. Smokers have a greater risk of developing cancer in other parts of the body like the mouth, throat, stomach, pancreas, kidneys and bladder.

iv. Smokers can develop diseased blood vessels, which may result in amputation of the limbs.

v. Smoking contributes to impotence in men and infertility in women.

vi. Smoking can affect the growth and later development of an unborn baby.


3. Set Your Date
Mark a date in your calendar to start the new journey and follow it. This will allow you to keep a record since the day you started to keep you motivated.


4. Get Rid of Temptation
Throw away all your remaining cigarettes. Resist the urge to keep a few 'just in case'. Get rid of all your lighters and ashtrays as well. Even your smoker's toothpaste should go into the garbage bin.

Stay away from people, places and situations, which tempt you to smoke. Give up the company of your smoking friends for a while, if they really care about you, they'll understand. Who knows, they might even join you in quitting.

Here are some useful tips for overcoming the urge to smoke:

i. Drink plenty of water and nibble on healthy snacks like fruit or nuts.

ii. Talk to someone, make a phone call or do something you've always meant to do but never had the time.

iii. Go for a brisk walk or do some simple exercise: touching your toes, bending sideways or jogging on the spot.


5. Find Something Better To Do
Learn simple relaxation techniques to reduce tension: muscle relaxation, deep breathing, shoulder and neck massage or even meditation.

If you miss holding a cigarette in your hands, play with something else instead, a pencil, paper clip, coin or toothpick.

If you usually smoke after meals, get up from the table and brush your teeth instead. Or go for a brisk walk.

If you like a cigarette with your coffee, switch to drinking fruit juice.
Take up a new sport or hobby. Get out into the fresh air more often.


6. Think Positive
See your dentist and have him remove the tobacco stains on your teeth. Then promise yourself you'll keep them clean from now on.

Think how good you will feel once you've given up smoking forever. No more cough and colds. No more panting after climbing up stairs. No more yellow teeth and nails. No more bad breath, smelly clothes and smelly hair. Think how much better everything will smell and taste too.

Think about how much money you're saving. 20 normal-sized cigarettes a day would cost you about $5.00 $9.00 at current prices. That's $1,825 $3,285 in a year! Think about what you could do with all that money, a new television set, a short holiday, new clothes. Give yourself a little reward for each day or week you can stay smoke-free.


7. Don't Lose Heart
Some people may develop withdrawal symptoms but these will disappear in one or two weeks. Apart from the longing to smoke (we've told you how to deal with this in step 5), the common complaints are:

· Tingling or numbness in your arms and legs as the circulation improves.

· Dizziness or lack of concentration as your brain gets used to having more oxygen.

· Cough and runny nose as your lungs get rid of all the dirt and germs that have collected inside while you were smoking.


8. Get A Little Help from Friends
Minor irritability and grouchiness. Remember, it wouldn't be easy, you would need commitment and you could do it, so hang in there and don't give up. All that poison is leaving your body for good now!

Tell your family and friends that you're quitting. In fact, go ahead and tell everybody so that you can't back out of your commitment. Get them to remind and encourage you if you start to lose heart. They'll also be more understanding and patient with you while you're trying to quit.


9. Put It in Writing
Write or type out a pledge that you'll never smoke again, like the one on the back cover of this booklet.
Keep it in your wallet or handbag and look at it every time you feel like lighting up.


10. Enjoy Your Freedom
Need we say much?
CELEBRATE YOUR FREEDOM FROM NICOTINE!


♥ love & blessings
15:07



Guess i woke up from the wrong side of the bed, feeling really lethargic this morning and the volcano finally erupted and i got shot. Instead of feeling the way i always do, i wasnt this time round, i felt i deserve it. Ive been playing with fire, am i not? Oh well! To add on to the insantity, i forgot to bring my hp out. And i realised only when i wanted to msg nic while on the bus.

Last night the topic of having a blog was raised. As usu, the guys had their stand on having one, not that they were against it but they felt the blog was like a diary and you dont go round sharing it. Also, they felt it's like announcing to the whole world what's happening to your life. Honestly, indeed like a diary, you dont go round sharing it but to me this blog is very much a space for me to voice my thoughts; vent, groan, whine, complain and the list goes on, all for rememberance and possibly share with close friends of whom i have given this blog address to. I have a diary and it is very much still in use except definately, it is p&c. And to address to the second point of the guys view. Im not announcing to the whole world, i do update what's happening and all, all for the purpose of keeping my friends updated of each other's life.

Speaking of which, of course i do try to stay positive in my blog though there bound to be emo entries. Like i mentioned, i contridict myself at times but no matter how, i try to stay positive. Also, at times i just feel it's better to voice here cos atleast you guys speak my lingo and understand me, i hope. Beside, there are matters which i just cant simply relate to by just speaking it out, i duno how to express it out well, i duno who to express it out except God, sometimes not even the person dearest to me BUT BUT BUT i believe, God will make a way.

This entry doesnt seem to get anywhere. Im really not feeling good today. Bleah!! It must be the tiredness and all. Oh well oh well!

Had my manicure after what seemed like a long while at boonchong gf's shop, nail renaissance @ holland village. 38A Lorong Mambong. Hah publicity. Honestly it was good, nice environment, worth the go! =)

Internship @ VOX
Finally had my training, after a month here. Learnt very much about the industry as matters related to it. Enjoyed the whole session and am looking forward to the next session, hah which ive no idea when! Heh!

Work wise is still very much the same, plenty of events coming up and im lookin forward to it!


♥ love & blessings
10:12


Thursday, October 19, 2006

A new addition into my wedding song list =)


For You I Will - Monica

When you're feeling lost in the night
When you feel your world just ain't right
Call on me, I will be waiting
Count on me, I will be there
Anytime the times get too tough
Anytime your best ain't enough
I'll be the one to make it better

I'll be there to protect you
See you through
I'll be there and there ain't nothing
I won't do

I will cross the ocean for you
I will go and bring you the moon
I will be your hero, your strength
Anything you need
I will be the sun in your sky
I will light your way for all time
I promise you
For you I will

I will shield your heart from the rain
I will let no harm come your way
Oh, these arms will be your shelter
No, these arms won't let you down
If there is a mountain to move
I will move that mountain for you
I'm here for you, I'm here forever

I will be your fortress
Tall and strong
I'll keep you safe, I'll stand beside you
Right or wrong

I will cross the ocean for you
I will go and bring you the moon
I will be your hero, your strength
Anything you need
I will be the sun in your sky
I will light your way for all time
I promise you
For you I will

For you I will
Lay my life on the line
For you I will fight
For you I will die
With ev'ery breath, with all my soul
I'll give my word, I'll give it all
Put your faith in me
And I'll do anything

I will cross the ocean for you
I will go and bring you the moon
I will be your hero, your strength
Anything you need
I will be the sun in your sky
I will light your way for all time
I promise you
For you I will

I will, I will, I will

I will cross the ocean for you
I will go and bring you the moon
I will be your hero, your strength
Anything you need
I will be the sun in your sky
I will light your way for all time
I promise you
For you I will

I promise you
For you I will

I promise you
For you I will

♥ love & blessings
18:03



And so the week is coming to an end, another week gone. Time passes so quicky! Time and tide wait for no man, how true.

Internship @ VOX
Received an email earlier and got really sad over it, my client, the incharge of the company has quit, to make things worse, both of them. And they are nice people. What's the world becoming. What am i becoming!? Getting emo over such matter, it's part of life, Heh!

Im bored. Not that i didnt do anything today, im done with my stuff. Have been sourcing for caterer the whole of yesterday and if you have read ms smart nicole's blog, my name is rosell, R-O-S-E-L-L, i repeated that over and over again. How funny. And today was spent chasing (hah i forgot how to spell that!) suppliers for the menus and looking for children choir. Soon i'll be really good in researching. Heh!

With this month coming to an end, soon, that means execution of events is up next! Im rather excited, after all the hustle bustle behind, coordinating, meeting, admendment, calling, this is it!

And dear all of HTM, our next classroom session is in two weeks time 4-Nov-06, Saturday and the next submission of ejournal is next Tuesday, 31-Oct-06 (oh it's salalukom's bday!!). Rem to take note!! =)


Mom came over for lunch on tuesday =) How nice of her. And ive been a really happy girl cos dear mr bernard tan had the car, since korkor is away, so he came to pick me! Yeah! =) No need to take the bus and travel for an hour bef i reach his place. BUT im back to reality as of today. Heh!

Im really tired, my eyes are closing. Have been really tired lately. My bed is all im thinking right now. I want to fight with the Z monster!!

♥ love & blessings
17:34


Monday, October 16, 2006

Saturday was a blast! =) Celebrated my dear bestie's darling's 21st! It all went well and it felt like it was their engagement party. Hhahha. And finally met up with my girls, how i miss them so. Yes and i finally met ben too! Haha he's one funny guy! Went over to IndoChine after, it was GREAT! Simply love their company =) The guys were occupied with their friends while the four of us just chat through the night, oh and disturbing ben every now and then. ULYNNNN WHERE ARE YOU????? what was missing that night was just you!!!! Miss you very much dear! Hugss.

Yes and sunday i met my sweet lil girl again! Awwww! I promise to put pictures of her soon! She's really one sweet lil thing! Amanda'a parents came to pick her later in the after tgt with her triplet bros. Putting the three of them tgt, is a joy!! =) Hah! No words can describe how it felt but it was sure heartwarming. =) I like kids, i certainly do hope i'll be a good parent in future! Hah!

On the other hand though, nic just told me the ordeal of giving birth her cousin went through yesterday. It's so painful! When im having tummyache, i cant tolerate the pain, i cant imagine how im gg to tolerate the pain when i give birth. Oh no! Hah but then again, i think the pain is worth it aft all, the moment you hear ur child cry, u know uve finally delivered her into the world by God's grace. =) Im looking fwd to have kids but i just pray really hard, all the worries i have will be taken care by my Daddy above! Heh!

And!! Mom has finally given the green light for me to be baptise =) AMEN! Signed up for baptism class yesterday, class will start next mth, every sat and im lookin fwd to it! =) Welcome me into the family of God! =)

Internship @ VOX
Everyone is out for meeting, leaving nic me and the designer in the office. Heh! We got nothing to do now, so im here blogging! Hahha

Since im blogging bout internship, this is for XIANG XIANG:

Hang on alright? We've pass the first month, it will be over really soon! Remember, we here for each other, anything just give us a call okay? And we'll always be here support each other, stay strong sweetie!! Hugsss



Alrighty, smart nicole is gg to help me put picture in my profile!! Over to smart nicole... =)


♥ love & blessings
11:22


Friday, October 13, 2006

Watched World Trade Center last night. A very touching typical cry-it-all-out story but with a different way to deliever it's story, in my view. Really really meaningful, it speaks of treasuring your love one and to express how much they really mean to you. I cried a bucket. And boy was i surprised, our dear sleepy mr tan was awake throughout the movie.

As i read and replied my girls, i was reminded of my past; my naive innocent past relationships, two to be exact. No it is not that i have entered many nor are they fabulous to rave or brag about, instead im just really thankful for them, the experience and definately, most importantly, for mr bernard tan who came yakking along into my life. Why yakking? Cos that's how i gotta know him, haha.

The first time i met ber was in my early sec one days, the tender age of a teenage life. My first impression of him was definately not a good one though it was memorable, one that i'll nv forget that i secretly swore to myself, never to see him again, the smelly duper ah beng. And who knows what God had planned for us, a year or so later, there he is present in my cell group. He changed a lot i must say, atleast for his apperance cos i didnt know him that well then, was really taken aback when he introduced himself. Hah more refined looking (than before). The first conversation we had after year or so was him teasing and taunting me bout the heartbreak i was nursing. We became rather close after, esp when we were both in the committee for TeensConnect. There was however this silent moment between us along the way though due to some really childish reason/incident, thinking bout it makes me laugh. But im really glad, bernard tan took the initiative to break the ice, yet again. And two years after my first encounter with him, we were together =)

It's been one hellva ride in this relationship but im really grateful we both stood strong for each other, by each other together through the obstacles. The journey was tough and i believe it will be even tougher but i believe my faith for God and him will not let me down. I cant be certain we will be together at the end, though i really pray for it to happen but im just very thankful for him, esp thankful for God, for bringing him into my life. Bernard tan has unknowingly taught me many values in life and many other stuffs too. I'll never trade anything for this priceless journey and i definately know, this is something i'll never regret embraking on. I really pray, really pray hard that we will last and our love for each other will never die. My source of love, my souce of companion, my source of hope, my source of faith and my source of anger (hah), my source of everything. I'll learn to appreciate him and treasure him more than i used to and let him know how much he means to me. And thanking my Daddy for him.

Ahh so mushy, heh! It must be the effect of the movie last night, ahha. Anyway rah tagged nic this ahwile back, it's really meaningful and i would very much like to share with you guys. Easier said than done, as always but it is true. I cant rem the exact phrase though... We'll always be searching for our right one, only to find our right one beside us all these while. =)

Moving on to my family. Im really blessed to have them, no words can amount to that. Im really thankful that as years moved on, im glad and proud to say that ive grown much closer to mom. I really love them dearly, i really do. As much as ive always complain and complain bout them, they truly mean a lot to me. =)

Internship @ VOX
Am in a lazy mood today, no energy to do anything heh! As usual, work is piling but im enjoying myself! =) Went for my first presentation yesterday and i was unfortunatel not dressed appropriately or so i think. Thought it was a follow up meeting, so i just simply wore my khaki skirt and a white tee with heels. Nevertheless, glad i had my jacket with me. It's really funny to see andre rehearsing and rehearsing over and over again, knowing his bo chap attitude. Hhaha. It was indeed an eye opener, though it's very similar to our presentation at sch minus the intense Q&A.

Been working on master plan, program schedule, minutes, mater plan, program schedule, mintues this week, just learnt how to do quotation, something new =) There's one waiting for me to complete now though. Hah! This month is very much on follow ups and all (the right terminology to use would be servicing, atleast in this company) for the next two months, where most of our events will take place.

Am pretty comfortable with the speed of learning and i thank God for that! Guess it is also very much of the timing, like how this is the quieter period and the months to come will be the peak. Oh well, thank you Daddy!

Im really sleepy *yawn and lethargic *boo

♥ love & blessings
11:58


Saturday, October 07, 2006

Finally went Liquid Kitchen last night, the place wasnt as great as i expected but i must say it's a nice place to chill out. Went with the usu fri peeps, dear, dicko, glenda and ray. Played some card games and can u image, instead of the normal beers penatly, we drank wine. Hhahha, it's a waste then again, i didnt really like the red wine, was super dry. I lost most of the games and by the time we left, i could feel the effect taking place. Nonetheless, was really glad i met dear after dinner =)

And finally, met up with my TP lovelysssss =) It was really great to see all, everyone =) The whole atmosphere was so diff, everyone askin how each of us were doing, how's WORK? The feeling was definately a good one, really happy to see everyone settled at their workplace and enjoying esp my close friends except for a handful. And im really thankful for the decision my Heavenly Daddy made for me =) Heard a few unhappy stories during our sharing, it certainly made me feel really blessed. Indeed the roaad ahead will still be rough and unpredictable but i believe my faith for Him will not let me down!

Yes and today is the four pretty wives' lucky husband JUSTIN AOW's birthday! =) Really glad he was surprised, VERY i must say, not expecting us to be there. Hhahah. Aow, i know u'll be reading this.... BLESSED BIRTHDAY AOW!!!!! We certainly do hope u like ur pressie, what uve always wanted and what u need! =) Hugsss

Got my first paycheck last week, it was a measly sum but better than none! Treat my dearest family tonight and it was great! Like a working adult, finally, doing my part as a daughter. Hhhaha, was really nice to see the smile on their faces =) It would have be better if mr tan was there but he had to attend his uncle's bday so.. what can i expect! =) Im happy seeing my family happy =)

Internship @ VOX
Life's been great till now. Work is definately piling and im not complaining, heh! Finally laising with clients, servcing them and all. Other than that, it wld very much be doing my minutes, master plan, proposal, program schedule, meeting up with client, site survey, the usu. This mth is pretty much quiet, more for preparation for the upcomings and i can foresee the comin mths to be busy and hetic.

Nic and i have been sorta splited up into two diff group but we're still helping each other out very much though.


Next week will be another GREAT week! AMEN!

The haze is bad, really bad! Even in the enclosed room of mine, i can still smell the haze, the PSI tonight is hit 150, unhealthy. Had a horrible migrane on thurs cos of the haze, PLEASE do take very good care of urself ya, all who are reading. Goodness! Honestly, some sorta measurement ought to be done to indo. Oh well! Just pray, the haze will be over soon.


IJ sweeties, dinner this week? =)

♥ love & blessings
22:07


Monday, October 02, 2006

Nic is out for a meeting and im here in the office blogging. Right!

Weekend's great, more or less, blessed I would say! Spent the whole Saturday with dear, jie and jie fu after my facial appointment. Talking bout which, I just realised my doc is 72 of age!!!! And her complexion is good, she look good though a tad to skinny and fraile but she's 72! Im really impress, I certainly do hope I'll age beautifully, im day dreaming....

As i was saying, spent the whole afternoon actually with dear's and himself. And for the first time in my life, i finally stepped into jurong point. Slow i may be but it is the other end for me. Nothing very fantastic though but for a shopping mall in a residential estate, it's fabulous! Really you can get almost everything u need there. Beside, while waiting for ber at the interchange, he had an excursion (haha that sounded so primary sch), some army outing to Singapore Discovery Center, i realise as much as jurong may be inaccessible to town and all, it is really accessible within the estate. You have no idea how many feedle bus services there are, double deckers to be precise. The advancement of Singapore eh, i sound so pro-singapore. Hahah!

Didnt join em for dinner though as it has been a long time since i had dinner with my own family. Was really reluctant initially but i was glad i made the right choice cos had a hearty meal with my own! =) Oh and last night, mommy got me the choc moon cake! Whoopee finally sinking my teeth into one other than the other jie got for me the other night. Im totally crazy over chocolate, hahah!

Had a funfair at Church yesterday, it was great! Woke up at an ungodly hour, 5.45am to get ready as jie will be picking us up at 7.30am at dear's. But as usu, our dear mr tan woke up late, in the end we took a cab to Church ourselves. Any old how, atleast the love went to Church with a light hearted mood despite sleeping at 3plus cos he was out with dicko. Working together with his family and cousins, we managed to packed 240 odd packets of nasi lemak within that hour before the funfair started. =) Team work! =)

Went to Bras Brasah after to check out the price of dear's guess watch, the deal was great! From $205 to $150 and the lady was still willing to go lower! We didnt get it though but will be going back. Had tea at Hong Kong Cafe, Tiong Bahru, the service was bad, the food was not redemable either. Did a lot of sharing while having tea. I would not say dear's family is super duper close and all but from all that ive seen, i really thank God for His abundance of blessing. I am more than thankful. Indeed life ahead will be tough but i believe our dear Daddy will never leave us alone. AMEN! =)

Scooted off to Chinatown after, the place was really crowded! And i only thought only during CNY it would be that packed! Had pre-dinner at the porridge place, the very same place dear and i hold memory to =) Dinner at ah gong's after.

Watched Rob-B-Hood last night, it's really a not bad show though i still stand firm on my stand that these chinese film could wait till the vcds are out but majority wanted to watch it. The show is really touching, really reminded me of some stuff one way or another and i teared so much during the show. Heh! Big time EMO.

This sound so mudane but im really bored!


Internship @ VOX
Work is piling up but there's still time to slack, haha! On a serious note, im pretty glad with the amount of work i got now, cant say much for nic cos she's been liasing with client and it seemed to be getting on her nerve. Hhahh, u know nic! Got four meetings this week, excited yet ..... think in time to come, i'll most prob be immune to it, just like how i was excited yet ..... when we gotta wear formal once a week for BESE in year 2. Why ..... cos i duno what is the exact phrase to fill in. Heh!

Finished the master plan which is required to be send to the client today, edited and re edited and it is finally done. For now, i'll just have to wait for my dear boss to be back before my next task is revealed! Hah! Our long postponed trainin is suppose to take place this week but seeing the tight schedule everyone has, including nic and myself, it'll most prob be postponed, i wont be surprised if we dont even have it! Hhahah.

Just realised today is monday, which means we will be having an internal meeting. Oh goodness, totally forgot bout it. Hope mr tan wont be madd.

♥ love & blessings
16:13



All I Want For Christmas Is You - Mariah Carey
Y blessings..

my blessing from Heaven

my gift from God;
truly my blessing indeed


Y kisses..





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